Wednesday, July 1, 2015

July 1st: A Journey, Years In the Making

I’ve been waiting for this day to come for a very long time. Today, I move to Jerusalem to begin Rabbinical School at Hebrew Union College. It is the first step toward a dream that I’ve wanted for as long as I can remember.

Just hours away from boarding my 11 hour flight, I’m a little overwhelmed by all of the emotions that come with such a monumental moment in my life. I’ve been telling people for weeks that I am incredibly excited to go to Israel, but I am not excited at all about leaving America, and all that comes with it. If I’m completely honest with myself, I’m absolutely terrified. I’m moving away from my family, my girlfriend, and the lifestyle I know to go chase my dream. That isn’t easy, no matter how excited I am for my adventure.

Yet, I am reminded constantly of why I am doing this in the first place. I am actually going to Rabbinical School. In 10 days, I begin classes to learn the valuable information necessary to begin my career and continue to hone the leadership skills I need to guide a congregation and my Reform Jewish movement. As scary as it is to be moving to the other side of the world, it is an incredible opportunity to learn in the epicenter of Jewish life, and to experience a culture and a lifestyle that is so important to my heritage and my people.

As I get on the plane, I’m getting ready for an amazing adventure, and I’m sure I will have hundreds of stories to tell. While I am away, I intend to very thoughtfully and thoroughly document my experience, using my blog, The Zoot Perspective, as a home base. The content that has been standard on the blog will remain the same, but throughout the year, I will make a concerted effort to incorporate posts at least twice a month that address specific issues or experiences that I have in my year in Israel.

I also intend to keep up the work I’m doing on my video blog, The Zoot Perspective: Web Congregation, because where better to take an in-depth look at the Torah portion than in the holy land? There will, of course, always be new and innovative ways to share my journey, from Instagram campaigns to Twitter and beyond. I’m even working on a book that gives insight into what it is really like to live in Israel. The possibilities are endless, as are the incredible stories I cannot wait to tell.

I’m about to move to the other side of the world to study in one of the most incredible places on earth, and to drive my education forward toward my dream. I am so incredibly lucky to have the opportunity to take this adventure, and to share it with my family and friends. I cannot wait to use this site as a vehicle to tell the story. I’m not exactly sure what I will find over the course of the next 10 months, but I know it’ll be a journey like none other.

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Monday, June 29, 2015

June 29th: No Disenting Opinion, Just a Descending One

In the wake of the Charleston shooting that left 9 church members dead last weekend, a fierce debate has started up against the Confederate flag, most notably the one that flies over the statehouse in South Carolina. Dylann Roof, the shooter at the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church, was infatuated with the Civil War flag, and was diabolically devoted to starting a race war with the flag as his symbol.


The debate has raged on for the last several days, gaining steam with each passing day that the flag isn’t removed. Many reference that the flag is a symbol for hate, that it represents a similar meaning to what the Swastika stands for in Germany (it is an illegal image in the country now), and that white southerners continue to use it as a symbol of oppression and malice.


As I’m watching the debate unfold, two things strike me as inherently troubling about the conversation. The first is to ask the question, why is this such a huge issue this week? Why hasn’t there been a raging debate or argument before, and why did we pick today to finally get insulted.


There is an easy answer to that, of course: we feel bad for what happened in South Carolina. More than that, we feel helpless to actually do anything about the atrocities that occurred in a place of worship, a place of peace, and are looking for some small way that we can bring comfort to those who lost loved ones.


This isn’t the way to honor these fallen friends and loved ones, though. It is a small way, a token way, a way to signal that yes, in fact, we NOTICED something terrible happened, but are unable to make the changes that would have actually saved their lives.


Look around. Very few are arguing with the idea of taking the flag down. Many southerners have said “let’s do it.” The South Carolina governor has called for it’s removal. A great may politicians, from all sides have spoken on the necessity for action. So why are we dedicating so much time, energy, and effort to fighting the subject when we are one swift and unilateral action from taking the thing down?


The answer, of course, is that it feels like action. We feel like we’re standing up for something, making bold and daring action against a horrible evil. What we really need to be doing, though, is standing up against the violence that caused this attack. We need to be creating laws and initiatives that make it harder to murder one another, rather than spending an entire week (if not more) eliminating a flag that most agree should be removed anyway.


The second piece of this debate that is so often ignored but so important to maintaining a thoughtful dialogue is to understand that Southerners aren’t inherently racist for being slow to want to get rid of the flag. We need to differentiate between the ideas that the flag encourages from what the people actually believe.


Someone raised in the south was not necessarily taught that the flag was a symbol for hate and oppression. What they were taught is that it is a part of their cultural heritage, a reminder of their loved ones who fought in the Civil War. It is a part of their southern identity, and therefore is incredibly important for regional pride. They have been taught this since an early age, and it will take explanation and patience to change that way of thinking.


Now, this position is wrong. The flag isn’t a symbol of valor and heritage. It is a reminder of a horrible time in our country’s history, and a symbol that needs to be relegated to the museums of the south, rather than the state houses. Rather than assaulting southerners with accusations of racism, though, we need to explain why the flag is received as it is by so many, and help others to understand.


The flag needs to be taken down. Frankly, it needs to have been taken down a long time ago, for reasons that many other writers have done plenty to explain. The flag is a reminder of a terrible portion of our country’s past, a reminder of a time when brother fought against brother, our country was divided, our people were oppressed, and animosity was as prevalent in American life as it has ever been before or since. We have no need for a symbol of oppression or hate.


As we engage in the conversation, though, we need to make sure we know WHY we’re talking about it, and recognize environmental factors that helped to get us here. Taking down the flag won’t bring those who lost their lives back to us. It wouldn’t have prevented their deaths if it was to have been taken down a week before the incident either. Taking the flag down will prevent racial anxiety that has been present for decades, and will, most likely, take several years to forget. The faster we get that process started, the faster we can begin to heal.

We need to take the flag down because it is the right thing to do. But we also need to take the flag down quickly, so that we can return our attention to matters that will save lives quickly, immediately, and dramatically.

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Monday, June 22, 2015

June 22nd: The Fight Against Hopelessness

The two greatest issues in American society collided in the ugliest way possible this week. Gun violence was used as the catalyst for what the gunman hoped would be a race war.

In Charleston, South Carolina, Dylann Roof opened fire at the end of a Bible study meeting at the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church, killing 9, including Reverend Clementa Pinckney. Americans are left wondering, yet again, what to do and how to think after yet another act of violence tears apart our people.

We identify them by the names of the communities torn apart forever. We call them “Newtown,” “Aurora,” now “Charleston.” We use the names of these towns to remember the locations of terrible acts of hatred and violence, each leaving us with tears in our eyes and despair in our hearts. We can’t identify them by the names of the victims; that would be too long a list and too heart-wrenching  to bear. The worst part for our country: the feeling of hopelessness, that we are at the mercy of those who choose to use weapons of death to terrorize our families, schools, churches, and homes.

Unlike Newtown or Aurora, though, this act of violence includes an unavoidable race element. Roof was a known racist, and attacked a church that is a monument for African American living in the south. We now face not only the terrible challenge of gun violence prevention, but also have to confront the deep and troubling racial tensions that are so prevalent, yet ignored in our culture.

It seems that Americans are at a loss. We’ve tried making bold statements of protest against those who use guns to violently make a point. We’ve tried to lobby our politicians to enforce stricter gun laws to prevent criminals and extremists from getting their hands on weapons of mass murder. We’ve tried writing blogs, articles, columns, and manifestos declaring our need for more attention to race issues and violence awareness and prevention. None of it has worked.

In fact, we have the feeling it is getting worse. There is a general sense of despair, of issue-related fatigue. We are tired of fighting against violence when it so clearly isn’t working. We aren’t making any progress. The world is getting more violent, not less. The world is more racially divided, not more united. And Americans are losing hope that we will ever see a change for the better. Even our comedians (like Jon Stewart) aren’t able to do their jobs, because we are so overcome with grief by the horrors that are becoming commonplace in our communities.



My deepest hope is that things are getting worse as a precursor to them getting better. Racists are feeling the world changing around them, and feel the pressure to act against the new found tolerance and patience. We are seeing more violence because these psychopaths are afraid that they are losing their grip on the world. My most sincere wish is that this terrible string of violence will be very soon overthrown by a time of peace and understanding, that the world is fixing itself and slowly, painfully purging itself of those who need to be taken out of the conversation.

I know this is a dream. I know it is most likely not the case. But we need to find something to drive us forward. We need some kind of hope that allows us to continue to work for the betterment of our society, and that continues to demand that those in power reevaluate how we allow citizens to protect themselves without arming violent criminals. We need to come together, to know that regardless of our understanding of racial tensions in our country, we can unite under the simple an unalienable right, that we must, as one country, pursue life for all, liberty for all, and an opportunity for happiness. Most importantly, we need to continue to make it abundantly clear that this kind of intolerance and hatred is no longer acceptable in our country.

I have yet to hear a single argument in favor of keeping guns in the hands of private citizens that makes even a lick of sense. There are those who argue that gun possession acts as a deterrent, that if everyone is armed, someone up to no good will be less likely to attack. This sounds like an opportunity for more violence, rather than scaring criminals into submission. Others say that gun laws don’t stop criminals from getting their hands on weapons. Several recent shootings have been attacks using guns that were purchased legally by others and then seized by the perpetrator. This doesn’t consider, though, that we are refusing to acknowledge that allowing citizens to own killing machines doesn’t have any productive value to our country, and we need to take drastic action to prevent such acts of terror from continuing.

The time for conversation is over. We can’t keep talking about these problems when those with the guns aren’t sitting in on the conversation. They are using the weapons faster than we can talk about getting rid of them. We need drastic and immediate action that will prevent further destruction of American life, thus leaving us able to have an active and thoughtful dialogue about the racial tensions that challenge our country’s unity. We can’t have that conversation, though, until we remove the threat of violence.

Once we remove the imminent violence that looms large and dangerously over our heads, we can engage in a conversation worthy of this great nation. Until then, we are being held hostage by those too afraid to be exposed as the terrorists that they are.

May the memory of all those who have lost their lives to gun violence be for a blessing, and let their memories serve as a force for change in this country. May we honor them by making the world better in their name.

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Tuesday, June 16, 2015

June 16th: Getting College Bang For Your Buck

As we cross the 50 yard line in June, high school graduations settle into the rearview mirror, and families begin to turn their attention to the next big adventure. This fall, hundreds of thousands of freshmen will descend upon colleges and universities across the country to begin an academic journey that is just the beginning of a very exciting four (give or take) years.

Yet, as the excitement of admissions letters and new t-shirts with school names emblazoned across the front wears off, the reality sinks in: college is expensive. Like, REALLY expensive. In fact, college tuition costs are rising at alarming rates from year to year, leaving many scratching their heads as to how to make the finances work.

In-state costs for public schools are sitting squarely at or around the $10,000 mark, with costs rising from year to year. You want to go out of state? You should expect a doubling of that number.

At the same time that parents and teens begin to scramble to come up with lunch money, candidates for president have begun to discuss the possibility of education subsidies, giving help to those who are willing to take their education to the next level. As 2016 approaches, it appears as though this will be an issue both in the Obama administration as well as in the debate between the Republicans and Hillary...errr...I mean the Democrats.

One such candidate, Chris Christie, just gave his two cents on the subject (although two cents won’t cover much). In a response to a democratic push to create debt-free graduates, Christie said “if college graduates are going to reap the greater economic rewards and opportunities of earning a degree, then it seems fair for them to support the cost of the education they’re receiving.”

On this front, Christie makes a very sound argument. A college graduate is going to receive opportunities and experiences that those without an education could only dream of, and thus should have to pay the cost of such an experience. This combats the notion that the government should help students pay for college. In that regard, his view is quite reasonable.

A much better argument for all sides of the argument is to take one step back and reevaluate whether or not the cost of tuition is at an appropriate level to begin with. As an alumnus of Indiana University, I was responsible for over $30,000 per year (before scholarships). What exactly does $120,000 per student over the course of a four year degree get them? Where does that money go?

While there is some level of transparency, students generally have to work pretty hard to see a full breakdown of how their tuition dollars are allocated. It isn’t as simple as paying for a student’s own professors’ salaries and the dorms and food that they utilize. In most cases, that money is spent as a collective unit, going into a larger pool to work toward the university’s general upkeep.

Let’s look at an example. Student A lives in a dorm that was built in 1940, and has, over the last 75 years, maintained its status as a monument to college living, receiving updates periodically, but rarely seeing an overhaul of the amenities. Central air conditioning is laughable, while communal showers are old and dank. At the same time, across campus, Student B is living in the brand new dorm, with gorgeous new carpeting, clean and unused furniture, and a new cafeteria in the basement that serves kale and quinoa and all sorts of other hipster foods that liberal college students claim to enjoy. Yet, as a general rule, the two are paying the same tuition costs.

Let’s look at a more academic example: students in the Journalism program vs. students in the English department. Both are paying the same amount of money, and both are receiving the same degrees from the College of Arts and Sciences, but one is receiving top of the line resources and educators, while the other trails behind in the field. These two majors can be swapped out for any two programs, depending on the school and level of focus. The bottom line is: with standardize tuition costs, you aren’t paying for the cost of YOUR education so much as you’re paying for the cost of running the school as a whole, an idea that I think most Republicans will have trouble wrapping their heads around.

As we begin the process of reevaluating the cost of a college education, we need to look in a new direction. Rather than finding ways for students to come up with 10, 15, 20 thousand dollars, we should instead be looking at exactly where that money goes, and attempt to find ways that the government can help fund the upkeep of the school, leaving students to pay for the academic resources they actually use. While Governor Christie’s approach is valid, it is a sound opinion based on a failed model.

The high cost of college is, in and of itself, a learning opportunity. Students learn to budget, to make decisions about what they can and cannot afford, and to make smart choices about how to most responsibly attain their goals. Yet, when students are faced with no good options because the cost of an education has gotten so out of control, we are handicapping the future of America, failing to allow our next generation to reach it’s true potential.

Rather than finding ways to help students fund an education that costs too much to begin with, the government would get far more bang for their buck if they attempted to help pay for the actual infrastructure and amenities themselves, and let students cover their own cost-of-education, rather than forcing students to pay those top dollars and then struggle to figure out how to pay.

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Monday, June 1, 2015

June 1st: The Feminism of Tomorrow

I’ve always been uncomfortable with structured feminism. It has always bothered me, because feminism is something I would love to be a part of. Who doesn’t want equality for women, for women to feel strong and empowered? I most certainly do, but something about the currently vocal feminist movement made me uncomfortable. I finally figured out why.

I actually have Meghan Trainor to thank. After the release of her latest song, Dear Future Husband, the feminist movement had a field day, tearing the girl to shreds. Their argument was that, in singing about all the things she wants in a perfect match, she was perpetuating the patriarchal society we currently live in, and was setting women’s rights back decades from the progress that has been made.

(While the music video may be the most challenging part about the song, here it is, so that you can listen and engage in an educated, thoughtful conversation)


My first thought was that, if one woman singing a song could set the entire movement back several decades, then the foundation of the movement can’t be particularly strong. So, as I thought about the challenge of this song, I went to look up the lyrics and do a little research, something many reactionaries must not have done.

As I read over the lines, I was puzzled. There was plenty in here about “taking care of” her man, sure. But, at the same time, there were a number of lines that demonstrated Trainor taking complete control of her relationship, from telling the man in her life that her 9 to 5 job is just as important as his, and by kindly letting him know that they will be spending more time with her family than his.

All at once, I realized what my problem was with feminism. Feminism, as it currently stands, doesn’t want to empower women into taking control over their own lives. Feminism wants to tell women HOW they should take control of their lives.

Many believe that a strong woman is one who “doesn’t need no man,” who wears pantsuits because she can, who has a top notch job and doesn’t stay at home with the kids. What REAL feminism is, and what we should all be striving for, is the power for a woman to be able to choose exactly what her form of empowerment looks like. Some women don’t want what the prototypical feminist wants, and that should be ok. That doesn’t take away from the strength of the movement; it actually adds to it!

Meghan Trainor should be allowed to write a song about what she wants in her perfect match, and whatever she decides should be accepted as feminism in its purist form. All women, really, should know what they want in a future husband (or wife), so that they can find the person that makes them happy without having to follow anyone else’s rules. If that means that the future husband doesn’t exist because a woman doesn’t want to be reliant on a partner, then that works perfectly for her. But don’t tell a woman she is wrong for wanting a man to tell her she looks beautiful, if that is how she will find the most joy out of life.

I have spoken to way too many women who say that they “hate feminism.” Too many fail to identify with a social revolution that is meant to represent all women. In fact, the current wave of radical feminism isn’t representing women at all; it is, rather, creating a new standard that women SHOULD (in their minds) believe in, and any opposition to it is belief in keeping woman from empowering themselves. If we are going to reach true empowerment of women, equal rights and the absolute, unwavering respect that women most certainly deserve, we need to do it not by creating any form of standard that women should buy into, but rather paving the way for women to take complete ownership of who they are and, most importantly, who they want to be.

If we’re going to be truly successful in making the world a better place for women, we need to be listening not to what ALL women want, but what EACH woman wants, and helping each and every one of them to realize their goals. The radical feminism of today is failing because they are trying to standardize female empowerment. The successful feminism of tomorrow will customize to make every woman know that she can call her own shots. That is the feminism I believe in.

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Wednesday, May 27, 2015

May 27th: A Better Tomorrow

I had very little interest in seeing Tomorrowland. Yet, on a lazy Memorial Day, my family wanted to see a movie, and that was the one that was the winner. So while I secretly was only excited for the popcorn, I went.


It turns out, I absolutely loved it, but not for the reasons I was expecting. A teenager gets selected as a “dreamer,” and is invited into Tomorrowland, a magical “future” in which the best and brightest come together to move the world forward. The basic concept is that there are too many distractions and barriers to innovation in the real world, so the best minds are brought to this utopian city to create, imagine, and dream without restriction.


At the very start, it is clear that the film’s writing team is on a mission. Most of the time, movies use subtly to try to get their agenda across, but apparently this team wanted to hammer their point home. The world they create is destroying itself. Pollution, corruption, human rights violations, you name it. It is destroying the earth from the inside out. While at school, the main character asks the question “What can we do about it? How can we make it better?” and is quickly dismissed, because that question is one too difficult to answer.


As the film progresses, the film shows that the governor of Tomorrowland is actually putting the idea of death and destruction into the minds of humanity. In a rant so common to the villains of superhero movies, he explains that he tried to share the image of destruction with the people in the hopes that they would change their behavior, moving away from the terrors of their potential doom. Instead, the people ran right to their own destruction, using it as a form of entertainment. He argues that they seem to relish their own annihilation, doing nothing to make the world better. It is the epitome of a complex enemy. Not a traditional “bad guy,” but a man trying to do his version of good and getting lost along the way.


There are two elements here that particularly caught my attention: the message and the vehicle. The message itself is intensely disturbing, and incredibly accurate. We love the problems in the world. We cherish the opportunity to complain, to look for reasons things are screwed up, to look for our own doom. It keeps our news outlets in business, our writers with things to talk about, and our small talk full of “oh, what is the world coming to?” We are so intent on identifying problems and wallowing in them, that we far too often forget to try to fix them.


Meanwhile, the vehicle for telling this story comes in the form of a very blunt cautionary tale. Tomorrowland doesn’t pull any punches, and comes right out and tells the viewer that the world is screwed up, and it is the way it is because we let it be that way. There are so many times when we treat people with kid-gloves. We are afraid to offend, afraid to come right out and tell it like it is. In this story, the writers were willing to explicitly call out the world for failing to drive our world forward, and demands better from each of us.


Here’s where it all comes together, though. The conclusion to the message is one of hope. We see that, after the transmission of doom and gloom is eliminated, we have the potential to try to find the best in the world, to think creatively and look for innovation. The final image is that of scouts going out to find “dreamers” to continue to make the world better.


We each have the opportunity to be dreamers. This film so strongly tells us that the more we wallow in our own despair, the closer we get to fulfilling that prophecy. Instead, we have to find the best, most creative ways to make the world better.

Tomorrowland is a wonderful representation of a warning we all need to hear, and we all need to take to heart. Let’s start dreaming.

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Monday, April 27, 2015

April 27th: Why Is Everyone Greeking Out?

Only a month after a fraternity at the University of Oklahoma was kicked off campus for heinous acts that poorly represented their house, another chapter has gotten into hot water with behavior detrimental to a Greek house’s values.


Over the weekend, members of Zeta Beta Tau (ZBT) from the University of Florida and Emory University apparently accosted military veterans who were sharing a resort in Panama City Beach. They poured beer on the veterans, as well as spitting on and even urinating on them. One man even reported that his service dog had been spit on. More details can be found here, here, and here.


Immediately, as was the case in the Oklahoma incident, the schools these fraternities came from began to investigate and impose sanctions, suspending ZBT from campus and working to expel guilty individuals. ZBT as an organization condemned their members, repeating often that this is not a reflection of the values they look for in their members.


And, once again, members of ZBT and the Greek system at large have to apologize for the bad behavior of a small few who are shaming their letters. I have a very close friend in ZBT. He shouldn’t have to be identified as having a common bond with the type of people who publicly humiliate the men and women who fought for our country. He should not have to apologize for belonging to an organization that not only let him in, but gave membership to these morons.


The fraternity system has a serious branding issue, and it starts with incidents like this. Too often, houses are forced to create a separation between the fraternity and it’s members. “No, it wasn’t ZBT that spit on veterans, just THOSE ZBT brothers…” “No, SAE isn’t racist, only THOSE SAE members are…” There are too many incidences when the minority is allowed to represent the majority in their bad behavior. Are there non-Greeks doing stupid, insulting things? Sure. But they aren’t being asked to represent an organization when they go out in public.


This kind of misrepresentation is present, though, even in much less blatant examples. If you ask any non-Greek alum of a major university to describe the Greek system, I would be willing to bet a year’s tuition that most would reference partying in the first sentence. Sure, the Greek system identifies with values of networking, philanthropy, and brotherhood. But nobody is noticing, because the outward appearance is that the Greek system is built for the purpose of getting drunk, getting laid, and getting into trouble.


As a non-Greek alum of a VERY Greek university, I know that I have little to no understanding of what goes on within the confines of a house. I don’t know the feeling of brotherhood and support. I don’t know what goes on in chapter meetings or in study hours. What I do know is that, from the outside looking in, it is easier to identify frat parties and hazing than it is to identify social action and philanthropy. It is easier to acknowledge the flaws than to see the values. And that is a huge problem for the thousands of brothers who ARE in a fraternity for the right reasons.

It isn’t that these values don’t actually exist. They most certainly do. But there is a serious issue in public appearance, and as long as it continues to be a problem, fraternities will have a hard time selling their brand of brotherhood without also having to answer for the idiocy of some of it’s members. The time is now for frats to clean up their organizations, imposing much stricter rules about who gets in and what brotherhood looks like, before more issues continue. Every time a fraternity allows the inappropriate behavior of one of it’s members to impact the greater whole, it is jeopardizing the future opportunities to participate as meaningful members of the collegiate community and society as a whole.

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